It is often hard to fully explain the breadth and depth of our ministry to children living in Children’s Homes. Many are not orphans, and yet their needs for love, acceptance and care is without question. We would love to share Geanina’s story with you. It is a personal story, a real face to this wonderful ministry we feel privileged to support from Australia. Please pray for Geanina - her transformation into a young woman with a firm faith in God is inspirational and we are sure she will continue to share her faith with her fellow students. Please pray also for the thousands of children who will spend this Christmas in Children’s Homes. For some it will be a nicer experience than spending time with biological family - they will receive gifts and watch wonderful Christmas concerts and plays performed by Mission Without Border’s staff, volunteers and church partners. For many children however, their greatest wish is to have a family; a family to spend the Christmas season with, a family that will lavish them with love and gifts. Pray they will begin to understand the love of our Heavenly Father; a Father who will never leave or abandon them, a Father who knows their innermost thoughts, cares, and dreams and loves them unconditionally!
This is Geanina’s story….Geanina grew up in different Children’s Homes. Her mother never legally married and soon after her birth, her parents separated. Geanina has a brother, who also grew up in a Children’s Home. His name is Mircea. Her mother was a physics’ teacher and her father graduated from university when she was young.
Soon afterwards, her parents separated and the mother found herself in the impossible situation of having to bring her children up by herself. Therefore, she was forced to put them in a Children’s Home, as their father was unwilling to help in any way. Soon after she was placed in the first Home at age 5,her mother took Geanina and her brother home for the weekend without asking the director’s permission. After a few days of being hungry and begging out on the streets, the staff of the Home, who knew that the children were missing, found them. They were in a really bad way. The staff was shocked to see them like this and immediately took them both back to the Home. The children’s mother could have been in trouble with the law, but the director of the Home didn’t want her to be charged with anything. However, in order to ensure this wouldn’t happen again, the director decided to transfer the children to another Children’s Home the very next day.
In her own words, Geanina continues her story…“I can say that I spent a big part of my childhood at Halaucesti Children’s Home. I had a great time here, because this was the place where I started to enjoy my studies and socialise with other people to a greater extent. I learnt to open up my heart bit by bit. While I was at this Children’s Home, Mr. Nicu, Mission Without Border’s coordinator in this area, invited me to participate in the Summer Camp that Mission Without Borders organised that year (2001). It was the first Christian camp I had participated in and I can easily say it was totally different from the ones I had been to previously. The people there were teaching the children with dedication and love and taught us lots of nice Christian songs and sketches. I didn’t miss any of the camps for the next three years. Then, my mother tried to stop me going and in order to make sure it wouldn’t happen, she took me and my brother to her home during the summer holidays. She treated us badly- beating us and making us beg on the streets. This made us not want to see her anymore.
Eventually, the Children’s Home closed down and we were moved to a different one in Verseni. At this new Home, I was able to go to the Summer Camp organised by Mission Without Borders Romania the following year. This made me so happy! The leader of my group was a great lady and she taught me many wonderful things. She was very patient with me. She listened to all my problems and offered advice. God worked in my heart and I learnt more about Jesus and all of a sudden, everything looked different; the sky was blue, the grass was green and people seemed nicer!
My peers began to ask me what had happened to make me so different. Of course, my bad opinion concerning “the repenters” (Christians) changed as they now became the people who were helping me overcome my fears and teaching me about God and His Son who came into the world to save us. I am now God’s child and I am happy to say it!
The educators at this new Children’s Home knew that I was a Christian straight away. I had other friends who were moved there too, and they were also Christians. The educators could see us reading the Bible together and singing Christian songs and they loved it!
After the holidays, I decided to start on the catechism course at the church because I wanted to get baptised. At first, I thought my mother would be happy for me, but then I realised she wasn’t. Once, she came to the church where I was taking part in a course and everyone could see how much trouble I can get into just for going to church. After that, I thanked God for being able to grow up in Children’s Homes. I know this might sound weird, but I am very sure that if I hadn’t been put in a Home, I wouldn’t have had the opportunity to hear the Good News, as my mother would never accept such a decision on my part. As they say, everything happens for a reason. Even though I grew up without my mother’s love and affection, which every child so badly needs, my Father in Heaven was a father and a mother to me.
Well, time passed and I finished the catechism course and the time came for me to be baptised. I was very nervous, but happy, especially as I had all my friends with me. My big surprise came when my mother appeared in the church that day. Although she was not happy that I was getting baptised, I was happy she came.
Geanina the day of her baptism - hs is the one holding the flowers and her Mum is the one in pink kneeling at the front.
I am aware that only God gives me the strength to not think bad thoughts about my mum and why she abandoned me and my brother, but instead to pray for her so that she will come to know Christ one day. My mother has never been in a good financial situation and I am sure it cost her something to come and see me get baptised, but she came. God bless her! I learnt that my father married another woman and that they have two children together. He is a paediatric doctor at a hospital in Iasi, but he refuses to be in contact with me and my brother. We will continue to pray for him, too.
In conclusion, all I can say is that without Mission Without Border’s coordinator and the dedicated people working for the mission, my life wouldn’t have been the same. Thanks to them, God is part of my life now and I would not like to do anything without Him. He is the one who gives me the strength to go on and He always takes good care of me. I am His daughter and He will never abandon me!”
This year, Geanina will receive a scholarship from Mission Without Borders Romania for the first time, to help her with her studies. She is a student at the university in Iasi, in the Mathematics Faculty. She is a good student, who knows that having a degree will increase her chances of finding a job later on and being able to live a good life.
What an inspirational story! Thanks for making this ministry possible!
God bless,
Michelle Dorey
National Director
Mission Without Borders Australia